At half seven, Little S came to see me for our pre-bedtime ritual of “kiss questions”. I ask her questions. If she gets them right she gets a kiss. If she gets them wrong she gets tickled. Little S generally prefers to get them all wrong.

She jumped up on my knee and I started with a Fathers Day theme:

“Which little girl whose name begins with ‘S’ made me very very happy today?”

She put her hand up: “Me!” I gave her a big squeeze and the obligatory kiss.

“But I also made you a bit sad” she said. She looked into my eyes and then looked down.

“How?”

“When I was in church I didn’t do what you told me to.”

Another little breaking of my heart. I told her she hadn’t made me sad. The only thing that could make me sad would be her being sad. She tucked her head into my shoulder.

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This is what happens when you give the girls a free hand to choose their own outfits:

Queens of Style
Voguing

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We have just spent our second Christmas with our Big and Lil S. They got so excited about it that at one point their brains seized and they went down for a 3 hour midday nap.

In the run up to Christmas, Big S was doing some processing. When she was younger some dramatic and unwelcome events happened at Christmas. From time to time she would sidle up to one of us and start talking about her foster mums and her birth mother. Then one morning I came down and she handed me a small envelope. In it was a card and this is what the card said:

Big S's card.

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